Have you heard of Fundamental Attribution Error?
In lay terms, when other people screw up, we assign blame (cause) to a character defect in them – laziness, carelessness, stupidity. However, when we screw up, we tend to see the role circumstances played in our misstep.
- My alarm didn’t go off.
- I have a head cold.
- A coworker didn’t give me all the information.
From Wikipedia: In social psychology, the fundamental attribution error (FAE) is a cognitive attribution bias in which observers underemphasize situational and environmental factors for the behavior of an actor while overemphasizing dispositional or personality factors. In other words, observers tend to over-attribute the behaviors of others to their personality (e.g., he is late because he’s selfish) and under-attribute them to the situation or context (e.g., he is late because he got stuck in traffic).
Sound familiar?
I hope so because we all do it. Giving grace to ourselves (and those we love) while judging others.
Along comes Jesus who says in Matthew 7,
“1 Judge not, that you be not judged. 2 For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. 3 Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? 4 Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.”
Sound familiar?